Thursday, April 15, 2010

Opposites attract!!!


It was 1783 when French physicist Charles Augustin de Coulomb discovered the theory of electromagnetism which states that "Opposite charges attract each other and likes repel."Yes...its a common phenomena that magnets of opposite poles attract each other , so the common cliche is that it is a law of nature..I am not biased to my statement..as also..d cases are visualised when like attracts like..

It's human nature as man has a warm space for the person with the same likes..In bible, there is a verse,"To him who has, more will be given." When you find a person with the same nature as yours, it hapens that you like that thing in him/her and you should also have the same... Think of people as energetic, vibrational beings for a moment. Yes, we are chemical and biological beings, but we also send out energy vibrations that are felt by others. Some people simply walk into a room and the whole place lights up, and most everyone wants to be around them. These attractive people give us the feeling of being uplifted and inspired while others repel, drain and exhaust us. Could it be that we’re responding to energy signals based on how people are thinking, feeling and being? So the question rises,"Is it similarities or differences that are the key to a perfectly balanced union?"


According to the study by University of Iowa, it was found that people tend to marry people with same attitudes, religion, character and values.

But is there any evidence for "Opposites attract" in personal relationships..The word “attraction” usually refers to the initial feelings a person has that spark an interest in the other. In case of courting, dating and sexuality...being opposite is fulfilling in many ways..Mystery, anticipation and excitement, curiosity and adventure all come from experiencing something different. Sure opposites clash, but that is often where the sparks and the passion is created. You can create heat without any friction ..!!! Masculine energies and feminine energies are opposites, but do not cause harmful and destructive clashes in relationships when they are balanced out. From the book by John Gray, "Man are from Mars, Women are from Venus" he has considered man and woman are creatures of different planets even, with sort of complete opposite behaviour, still there is a sense of attraction between dem..
Lets keep this at one side and look at the natural evidences..good and evil, cops and robbers, defeat and success ,day and night go together... When I look at the sky at the night, again I get the same feeling ,"Opposites attract!!!".The dark beauty of the sky and the glittering stars on it..along with the white an bright moon...presents an amazing and beautiful example of immenseful attraction of brightness & darkness...
The game of the brainees, "Chess" is all black and white..
Lord Vishnu is also called Nilameghashyamalan - possessing a complexion the colour of the dark clouds. As proof that opposites attract, Vishnu's outer appearnce is dark while he is associated with the saint qualities, bringing light & peace to the world..
The song by Paula Abdul "Opposites attract"(http://www.lyrics.com/opposites-attract-lyrics-paula-abdul.html) also states how opposites attract in personal relationships...
Yes, it will always remain a contadictory question that whether opposites attract or likes do?Attraction will always remain present when your liking changes gradually with time...

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Lesson of Life

An old man sitting under the shed of the tree, covering himself with some torn clothes, and holding a broken umbrella..He just want to protect him from the heavy rain .
Suddenly, he found a boy , somewhat around 10 years old..just jumping and playing in the water.Suddenly, his twinking eyes targeted the playful child.Old man was shivering, and so it took a lot of courage for him, to draw the attention of the boy.
Little boy came forward to him, and just holded his hand, and said,"Baba, come!!! we will play together!"..Old man took a lot of effort to listen to the boy.He just said, "My dear Boy, It will be highly enjoyable tro play with you..But today I want you to enjoy more, Lets play a game together..But you have to promise me, that you wil teach this game to your friends as well.And before that, I will ask you three questions.Do remember, you have to answer me truely, otherwise I wont play with you..The innocence in the eyes of the boy kept him blindfolded and he simply said,"Offcourse,Baba!".
So, they started the journey of life alltogether..
Baba: Why are you playing in this rain?Aren't you afraid of catching cold?
Boy: No , I love this rain .It gives me immense pleasure and it pours till the depth of my heart.
Baba:Whom do you respect more, parents or your teachers & Why?
Boy:I respect my parents more, because they bring me toys.But teachers bring me sticks for not doing the homework.
Baba:What kind of knowledge is important, your school books or your heritage?
Boy: These books can be just mugged up, but the it tooks more effort to adapt to the heritage.With this heritage, I can easily learn the books.
The answers were really unexpected, and the old man was blankly amazed by the boy..
So, The scintillating eyes of the boy were ready to enjoy the journey..

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Exploring myself

the deepness of the sky..
the shining of stars..
the beauty of the moon..
the glisten of the sun....make the heaven all above us...So, what we are...?

Is there any significance for life in a Universe of billions of stars that ignore us? Is there any significance for life in an Universe whose dimensions and nature overcome our understanding?
This question on significance was from the history , but none is able to answer it..
Life is like a beautiful melody, only the lyrics are messed up..
A human who gets the shade from the sky, happiness and memories from the stars, peace from the moon and power from the sun...But what do we give to them in return...NOTHING!!!
A piece of paper is of no value when blank, but becomes a valued or most valued entity when enriched by some content on it..Isnt it..Man is a stone which can be either thrown from one place to other or can be kept in the drawing room when art engraved on it...

"Thought is energy. ... Your expectations send telepathic suggestions."
"Within your physical atoms the origins of all consciousness still sing."

Your world is formed in faithful replica of your own thoughts...

If you think positive suggestions to yourself about a situation you send telepathic ammunition for positive use. You must learn to erase a negative thought or picture by replacing it with its opposite.
Sometimes I have a qustion in my mind...if already there are 2 faces of everything that persists in nature.Where I am???

The little star, that shines, but everybody snub..
The book with all the resolutions, but nobody can interpret to those quessionaires even..
I am the miracle which everybody wishes to come true..but nobody expects it can ever come..
I am the beggar that asks the sky everyday to give me some idea what should I return it...
I am so clever that sometimes I don't understand a single word of what I am saying
I am an artist who always try to draw my imagination..
I am the integral entity without whom this world is incomplete..
I am the silence which is more aloud than the words ever heard..
I am the nib of the pen that supports every hand...
I am the love that overcomes all hikes of hatred....
I am the truth that can withdraw all lies..
This is what I am up to...
I resides everywhere ...If every human starts thinking with this approach...really this earth can become a heaven someday...







Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Discovering the words behind my silence

Sometimes this buzzing world asks me a question, How do you interpret silence? At this point of time, my mind start rambling in all the directions ,and with what I am left with, is again d long- lasting forever million dollar silence..During this journey of my mind, I have come across with various solvents like, sometimes the silence is the state of zero decibel, sometimes the stagnancy of mind, but many a times, it is the power of the implicit words that come out form your expressions..isnt it...
Again, a big perplexity... do controversial terms like words and silence can ever be together?My answer, "Yes", always they do, silence is the state when u hardly rest, because at that time , your mind works apace, these motions do generate words that you never speak but you have heard...So, I got the answer.At that time, I see the dark sky, in the deep silence i heard this..
Behind this darkness, there is a gloring world...
the people there know you are the part of it,
But mysteriously, you just smile and say ...
aah, so lovely being watch the beauty of sky..
this sky will suddenly laugh at you,
and say..
hey fool..its you who has given me the reason to smile...