Thursday, April 15, 2010

Opposites attract!!!


It was 1783 when French physicist Charles Augustin de Coulomb discovered the theory of electromagnetism which states that "Opposite charges attract each other and likes repel."Yes...its a common phenomena that magnets of opposite poles attract each other , so the common cliche is that it is a law of nature..I am not biased to my statement..as also..d cases are visualised when like attracts like..

It's human nature as man has a warm space for the person with the same likes..In bible, there is a verse,"To him who has, more will be given." When you find a person with the same nature as yours, it hapens that you like that thing in him/her and you should also have the same... Think of people as energetic, vibrational beings for a moment. Yes, we are chemical and biological beings, but we also send out energy vibrations that are felt by others. Some people simply walk into a room and the whole place lights up, and most everyone wants to be around them. These attractive people give us the feeling of being uplifted and inspired while others repel, drain and exhaust us. Could it be that we’re responding to energy signals based on how people are thinking, feeling and being? So the question rises,"Is it similarities or differences that are the key to a perfectly balanced union?"


According to the study by University of Iowa, it was found that people tend to marry people with same attitudes, religion, character and values.

But is there any evidence for "Opposites attract" in personal relationships..The word “attraction” usually refers to the initial feelings a person has that spark an interest in the other. In case of courting, dating and sexuality...being opposite is fulfilling in many ways..Mystery, anticipation and excitement, curiosity and adventure all come from experiencing something different. Sure opposites clash, but that is often where the sparks and the passion is created. You can create heat without any friction ..!!! Masculine energies and feminine energies are opposites, but do not cause harmful and destructive clashes in relationships when they are balanced out. From the book by John Gray, "Man are from Mars, Women are from Venus" he has considered man and woman are creatures of different planets even, with sort of complete opposite behaviour, still there is a sense of attraction between dem..
Lets keep this at one side and look at the natural evidences..good and evil, cops and robbers, defeat and success ,day and night go together... When I look at the sky at the night, again I get the same feeling ,"Opposites attract!!!".The dark beauty of the sky and the glittering stars on it..along with the white an bright moon...presents an amazing and beautiful example of immenseful attraction of brightness & darkness...
The game of the brainees, "Chess" is all black and white..
Lord Vishnu is also called Nilameghashyamalan - possessing a complexion the colour of the dark clouds. As proof that opposites attract, Vishnu's outer appearnce is dark while he is associated with the saint qualities, bringing light & peace to the world..
The song by Paula Abdul "Opposites attract"(http://www.lyrics.com/opposites-attract-lyrics-paula-abdul.html) also states how opposites attract in personal relationships...
Yes, it will always remain a contadictory question that whether opposites attract or likes do?Attraction will always remain present when your liking changes gradually with time...